How to Savor Your Holiday
July 1, 2024
It’s 3pm. My brain feels mushy after hours of presenting, so I look out the window. And there, right in front of me, is a hummingbird. Its delicate wings beat so quickly that it’s a blur. I’m overwhelmed by appreciation for this moment. I feel my body relax. I let out a long breath and am fully present, able to soak up this moment of delight.
Thanks to my hummingbird-friendly pollinating plants, if I look for hummingbirds at this time of year, I can usually find them. Thanks to my resilience-boosting habits, I can fully appreciate them.
Researchers have found that the happiest people savor the good moments in life. By taking the time and spending the effort to appreciate the positive, we can experience more well-being.
Savoring little moments is a habit; all good habits start with a plan. What will you savor this week?
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